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M\u00ebnyra m\u00eb e mir\u00eb p\u00ebr ta arritur k\u00ebt\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u2019u m\u00ebsoni atyre nj\u00eb q\u00ebndrueshm\u00ebri mendore, sa m\u00eb shpejt t\u00eb jet\u00eb e mundur. F\u00ebmij\u00ebt me nj\u00eb mendje t\u00eb mpreht\u00eb, kan\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb gjasa t\u00eb ken\u00eb vetbesim t\u00eb lart\u00eb dhe t\u00eb jen\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb pozitiv\u00eb, si dhe t\u00eb m\u00ebsojn\u00eb nga d\u00ebshtimet e tyre.<\/p>\n
Ekzistojn\u00eb disa fjal\u00eb ose fraza q\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb pavet\u00ebdijshme d\u00ebrgojn\u00eb mesazhin e gabuar tek f\u00ebmija.<\/p>\n
1. \u201cQet\u00ebsohu!\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb kurr\u00eb nj\u00eb ide e mir\u00eb t\u2019u tregoni f\u00ebmij\u00ebve tuaj se si duhet t\u00eb ndihen, edhe n\u00ebse thjesht po p\u00ebrpiqeni t\u2019i qet\u00ebsoni ose t\u2019i g\u00ebzoni. Ne duam t\u00eb d\u00ebrgojm\u00eb mesazhin, q\u00eb t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb qet\u00eb pavar\u00ebsiht situat\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre, por \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishm\u00eb t\u2019I kushtoni v\u00ebmendje asaj q\u00eb f\u00ebmija po p\u00ebrjeton.<\/p>\n 2. \u201cMos u shqet\u00ebso p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n \u00cbsht\u00eb e padobishme t\u2019u thuash f\u00ebmij\u00ebve se \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb mendojn\u00eb, edhe n\u00ebse thjesht t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqesh t\u00eb zbus\u00ebsh frik\u00ebn e tyre.<\/p>\n Kur dikush thot\u00eb: Mos u shqet\u00ebso p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb, shqet\u00ebsimet tona nuk largohen automatikisht. Nj\u00eb strategji m\u00eb e mir\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u2019u m\u00ebsoni f\u00ebmij\u00ebve: \u00c7far\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb kur jan\u00eb t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsuar?<\/p>\n Provoni t\u00eb b\u00ebni nj\u00eb pyetje hipotetike: \u201cN\u00ebse shoku jot do t\u00eb ishte i shqet\u00ebsuar p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb, \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u2019i thoje?\u201d<\/p>\n 3. \u201cDo t\u00eb dal\u00ebsh m\u00eb i miri\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n N\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb thuash: \u2018Do t\u00eb fitosh!\u2019 \u2026 mesazhi m\u00eb i mir\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb: \u2018Dil atje dhe b\u00ebj m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebn. Dhe n\u00ebse nuk shkon mir\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb rregull.\u201d<\/p>\n 4.\u00a0Mos t\u00eb shoh m\u00eb ta b\u00ebsh k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n Kjo fraz\u00eb shpesh shqiptohet nga zhg\u00ebnjimi dhe nj\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndihmuar f\u00ebmij\u00ebt t\u00eb shmangin zakonet e k\u00ebqija ose t\u00eb rrezikshme.<\/p>\n Por \u201cf\u00ebmij\u00ebt jan\u00eb t\u00eb posht\u00ebr\u201d dhe n\u00ebse i paralajm\u00ebroni vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr pasojat e kapjes, ata thjesht do t\u00eb m\u00ebsojn\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebhen m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb n\u00eb fshehjen e sjelljes s\u00eb keqe nga ju.<\/p>\n 5. \u201cKjo \u00ebsht\u00eb perfekte!\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n N\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb ngjashme, kini kujdes q\u00eb t\u00eb mos edukoni nj\u00eb perfeksionist: nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb q\u00eb mendon se duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb \u201cperfekt\u201d p\u00ebr t\u00eb merituar l\u00ebvdata ose dashuri nga prind\u00ebrit e tij. 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